Thursday, September 19, 2013

The Male Gaze and Oppositional Gaze


The male gaze is is defined as a man’s impression of seeing a woman. Consequently, the word “survey” is used quite frequently in both articles, in my opinion, what men do is evaluate the women he looks at. The man will then decide his next course of action based on his evaluation. “One might simplify this by saying : men act and women appear. Men look at women. Women watch themselves being looked at. This determines not only most relations between men and women but also the relation of women to themselves.” (Berger, 47) 




The male gaze is pervasive in art because in history, it has showed that women were not valued in art as they should be. The naked body was seen and unappreciated. In history books, naked men are valued, their sculptures appreciated and memorable. Naked sculptures of women were seen as ordinary, with the subjects mostly unknown. "What is the sexual function of nakedness in reality? Clothes encumber contact and movement. But it would seem that nakedness has a positive visual value in its own right: we want to see the other naked: the other delivers to us the sight of themselves and we seize upon it - sometimes quite regardless of whether it is for the first time or the hundredth." (Berger, 58)

The male gaze is pervasive in popular culture because men have always been in a role of power, and allowed to be in situations where they have some form of control of the public, therefore, controlling media. The age in which we live in has developed a mentality that there is only women beautiful woman, and that anything less isn't undervalued or unappreciated; anything less is discarded and irrelevant



The oppositional gaze, as descried by bell hooks is, "hard intense looks." It is an not physical action, seen as "resistance." A non physical "political" statement. (Hooks, 115) Seemingly, the gaze has always been prevalent, but in slavery is where it began to be punished. African American slaves were beaten if not killed for looking at their owner directly in the eyes, it was seen as disrespectful.  This unfortunately developed into a mentality that parents began to use as slavery ended. The thought process is that, the parent as power (like a slave owner), and a child must be obedient (as a slave would) to their parents. Therefore, a child who gives a "hard intense look" to a parent, would be making a rebellious punishable statement. As bell hooks stated, she was torn because children when yelled at are told to look at their parents, not look down at the ground yet in everyday situations, looking is what might get them in trouble and it can be confusing. 

I like most men, am not ashamed to say that I look at women I do not know and evaluate or survey them in my head, it would seemingly be against human nature not to. Reading these articles has opened my eyes to a new outlook and new understanding towards just how deep my gaze can impact someone, not only negatively as well. I think that, as superficial as it might sound, for both men and women, if they feel as though they are having a bad day and a person of the opposite sex gives them the "gaze" it just might brighten their day. 

5 comments:

  1. I find it interesting that you would say "I think that, as superficial as it might sound, for both men and women, if they feel as though they are having a bad day and a person of the opposite sex gives them the "gaze" it just might brighten their day." Despite the negativity associated with this pervasive gaze and the resistance that many women put up in response to the gaze, how is it that we find pleasure in being gazed upon? Nice piece and I admire your bravery for coming clean with what most men would rather not admit to.

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    1. Hey Glenn, thanks. I just wanted to be upfront and just add a little bit of what the other side could be.

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  2. I find it interesting that you tried to address what could be the positives of a gaze. I just wish you could have pushed it a little further. Also, I think you learned a lot about yourself through this assignment as did I. Reflecting on what was done and taking strides to improve is admirable.

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    1. Hey Neil, thanks. I really did learn a lot about myself from the readings, it wasn't anything new necessarily but definitely a new way to look at things.

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  3. I'm glad that you were so honest in that last paragraph. It's important to examine our actions and make changes as we become aware of how our behavior affects other people.

    However, the fact that you ended your post with: "I think that, as superficial as it might sound, for both men and women, if they feel as though they are having a bad day and a person of the opposite sex gives them the "gaze" it just might brighten their day. " makes me a little nervous because you did not provide any support for how that statement isn't true. If I'm having a bad day, the last thing I want is for anyone (man or woman) to gaze my way. You may look at someone with good intentions, but that person may not interpret your actions the same way.

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